Haiti
celui qui frappe oublie, celui qui porte la marque se souvient
“the one who strikes forgets, the one who bears the mark remembers”
the person who causes harm forgets it, but the victim never does
This Haitian proverb ('bay kou bliye, pote mak sonje' in Creole) warns that those who hurt others tend to move on, while the wounded carry the memory forever.